Jennifer Lopez
Jennifer Lopez at the 2011 Grammy's REUTERS

It's clear from recent photos of Jennifer Lopez that's she's not sulking over the failure of of third marriage to Marc Anthony. She's been seen out-and-about with boy-toy Casper Smart and her all smiles demeanor shows she has no qualms about their age difference. But from the Latin spitfire's recent statements to Vogue, it seems that their broken marriage is still difficult to process.

Without going into's just really, really sad. And look, we are still going through it, and it's emotional sometimes and difficult. We're still friends - and we're parents but it's going to take time. It's tough. But for the most part, I feel very proud of the way we're handling it. I really do. We are doing the best we can for the kids.

Lopez was married to Anthony for 7 years. It was her longest lasting marriage and the couple had twins together. Many believed the wedded bliss would stick since her other relationships were much shorter. Lopez was married to Cuban bus boy Ojani Noa for barely a year and her second union, to dancer Chris Judd lasted roughly 8 months. Lopez was also involved in a very public romance with Ben Affleck for two years but the couple split just before their 2004 wedding was set to take place.

So why did Lopez choose to split from Anthony? Alcohol abuse may have been a factor but Lopez won't say more than that. Yet when the interviewee referenced an earlier shoot in which Anthony was drinking cans of beer and chain-smoking Newports. The American Idol judge, who is firmly opposed to drinking and smoking, expressed her disdain.

He's still doing it! Look we are total opposites that way. I'm used to that from growing up where I did. The men kind of drink beer and smoke cigarettes, and women kind of like...don't.