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  • Lana Rhoades answered a question from a fan about relationships in the latest episode of her podcast
  • The fan asked her about the key to determining whether someone is sincere and isn't just dating them for benefits
  • Rhoades advised women to follow their intuition because it will tell them when something is wrong

Former porn star Lana Rhoades has given fans some relationship advice based on her own bad experiences with past lovers.

In the ninth episode of their podcast "3 Girls 1 Kitchen," Rhoades and co-hosts Alexa Adams and Olivia Davis answered some questions from fans, including one that asked "how to know if someone doesn't actually love you and just wants you for the benefits."

Rhoades, who received the question, explained that it "hits so close for me because I feel like I've been in so many relationships like this dating all the way back to my first relationship." As for the key to determining if one's partner is only seeking benefits and isn't sincere, the OnlyFans star advised the fan to trust their instincts.

"I feel like you just know," Rhoades said. "Intuition tells you if things don't feel right and you just get that vibe, then you probably are being used or maybe not into a full degree."

"Sometimes I found that they do love you but their main reason for being with you and doing the things that they do is because they want something from you," she explained. "But honestly, it all comes down to intuition."

Rhoades also suggested checking their partner's phone. For her part, she said she had past partners who looked up her net worth or told their friends that she would buy him a Lamborghini despite her never saying such a thing. "If you have that feeling, trust it," she added.

When Adams jokingly chimed in, "They're manifesting," the three hosts shared a laugh.

Rhoades went on to say that women shouldn't wait for their partners to prove their theory. Citing a previous relationship, the former adult star said she "had an idea the whole time" about the man she dated and had an "aha" moment when her partner showed his true colors, which she said "crushed" her to her core.

Concluding her advice, she emphasized, "Just trust your intuition."

While Rhoades has learned her lesson from past romances, her current relationship with YouTuber Mike Majlak is not without its issues.

In a previous episode of their podcast, the social media influencer shared that her boyfriend had agreed to move in with her and pay half the rent of her new home last year but broke up with her the day she moved in. Majlak would then come over to her new home without paying rent or doing anything, something that did not make her happy.

Despite taking him back a week later, Rhoades acknowledged that Majlak crashing her home late at night only to ignore her and play video games wasn't right.

Rhoades also called Majlak "very immature" because he has no plans to settle down, get married and have children at 35. Due to her boyfriend's choices, she admitted that she sometimes fears that Majlak is wasting her time and "good years."

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Actress Lana Rhoades arrives for the 33rd Annual XRCO Awards Show held at OHM Nightclub on April 27, 2017 in Hollywood, California. Albert L. Ortega/Getty Images